I'm a little unclear as to your specific concern, Bree, but if there is a problem you can hit up one of the lead staff over e-mail (see the 'display staff' command) to talk about it. If you'd like to discuss it with me personally, my e-mail is whim dot nodeka at gmail dot com.
In general, we usually let players have free run in terms of behavior as long as they abide by Nodeka's rules ('help rules'), but I'm always happy to talk about any concerns a player might have. Nothing is immutable.
- Whim